It is very sad to me to see that sometimes we spend more time creating conflicts than taking care of and promoting life and integration.
How long is it going to take until we realize we are jeopardizing our chance to survive as a species as we keep on generating more grounds for conflicts and destruction? For how long this destructive model can exist?
I'll do my best as a Coach, a Mother, a friend to help people see a conflict as an opportunity to promote honest dialogue and generate grounds for integration of different perspectives.
Whenever we hide from others our true concerns in a conflict situation, instead of moving towards our goal, I believe we are limiting our chances to meet it at all.
Why not get to our negotiation rounds with a transparent agenda, and really be true to us and to the other? What do I gain by destroying my counterpart? What do I lose by doing so? Maybe what brought us to the negotiation table or to this difficult conversation is key to a whole new form of relationship between us that will honor our concerns and enable new forms of interaction that would add value to both of us, and we cannot see it today just because we think it is impossible to exist.
I hope that we'll be brave enough as a species and that we'll start using our intelligence to build a world for all of us Human beings to leave in harmony and integration.
I saw a remarkable video on TED.com today, and I'd like to share with you. It talks about conflict resolution, and in my opinion it is brilliant! I hope you will enjoy it and accept his invitation to walk the Abraham path.
Love,
Renata
How long is it going to take until we realize we are jeopardizing our chance to survive as a species as we keep on generating more grounds for conflicts and destruction? For how long this destructive model can exist?
I'll do my best as a Coach, a Mother, a friend to help people see a conflict as an opportunity to promote honest dialogue and generate grounds for integration of different perspectives.
Whenever we hide from others our true concerns in a conflict situation, instead of moving towards our goal, I believe we are limiting our chances to meet it at all.
Why not get to our negotiation rounds with a transparent agenda, and really be true to us and to the other? What do I gain by destroying my counterpart? What do I lose by doing so? Maybe what brought us to the negotiation table or to this difficult conversation is key to a whole new form of relationship between us that will honor our concerns and enable new forms of interaction that would add value to both of us, and we cannot see it today just because we think it is impossible to exist.
I hope that we'll be brave enough as a species and that we'll start using our intelligence to build a world for all of us Human beings to leave in harmony and integration.
I saw a remarkable video on TED.com today, and I'd like to share with you. It talks about conflict resolution, and in my opinion it is brilliant! I hope you will enjoy it and accept his invitation to walk the Abraham path.
Love,
Renata
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